Another positive aspergers forum (which can serve as great, FREE counseling sessions if you ask enough questions!) over at Dephi Forums is "AS and their Partners": http://forums.delphiforums.com/asandpartners/start Be careful not to confuse it with another similar sounding one (which is full of aspie bashing). "AS and their Partners" is moderated by a very insightful aspie male named Gerry who is married to an NT woman.
Search the archives and then when you have questions that you need to get some insider aspie wisdom on, join the Friday night chats from 9-11p Eastern time and ask away. Gerry is great at answering questions in real-time. He ought to get paid for sharing so much "better than gold" advice, but I promise, it is free. Just remember to be nice. :) No aspie-bashing allowed.