tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026421087737007766.post8726581250411438165..comments2023-04-27T00:25:58.489-07:00Comments on Aspie Wife, Aspie Mom: Borderline Personality Disorder, Codependency, and Aspergersaspmomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01642480111576417752noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026421087737007766.post-32411874319084755542016-07-03T19:30:16.510-07:002016-07-03T19:30:16.510-07:00Counseling definitely does not solve the problems....Counseling definitely does not solve the problems. But counseling puts communication and the marriage on the minds of both of you, so, with a lot of work and commitment, things have a chance of being better, and being bearable. But don't stop the counseling.... Maybe the visits can be very spaced out, eventually. But don't stop. And make sure to find a counselor who has understanding and experience with aspergers. Otherwise, things might actually get even worse! (Some counsellors might make an NT spouse feel guilty and completely in the wrong, if they have no understanding of aspergers!)aspmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01642480111576417752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026421087737007766.post-46186514407479436922016-07-03T19:24:29.116-07:002016-07-03T19:24:29.116-07:00How are you?? Where is he now, and are you happy?...How are you?? Where is he now, and are you happy? I hope you have found much joy and peace!aspmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01642480111576417752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026421087737007766.post-77561817936951913952016-03-17T00:50:58.205-07:002016-03-17T00:50:58.205-07:00Dear Aspom, I would like to know whether attendin...Dear Aspom, I would like to know whether attending counselling sessions with your husband has made a real, lasting difference or whether you have to start it all over again every day. In short is counselling the answer to the problems in an Aspie-NT relationship?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026421087737007766.post-36043493740218791952016-03-06T15:24:35.442-08:002016-03-06T15:24:35.442-08:00I just want to say that you're such a courageo...I just want to say that you're such a courageous woman! I wrote you about 2 years ago about my then boyfriend who wanted me to obey him no matter what (with his hand on the bible). You then said RUN.<br />I did. But you stick to your husband, no matter how difficult it is. May God give you strength and wisdom and lots of love! :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com