tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026421087737007766.post3700372665586671872..comments2023-04-27T00:25:58.489-07:00Comments on Aspie Wife, Aspie Mom: Problem Solving and Cross Bearingaspmomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01642480111576417752noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026421087737007766.post-67493571213039176312012-07-26T13:30:25.148-07:002012-07-26T13:30:25.148-07:00I just found your website today. I wanted to cry a...I just found your website today. I wanted to cry and shout for joy knowing that I am not the only woman out there with an AS Husband and a AS/SPD Daughter. I have read many of your post and will be reading more. I can't thank you enough for your blogging. THANK YOU!!! I will be visiting a lot now :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026421087737007766.post-72398418327367778712012-05-10T07:09:09.499-07:002012-05-10T07:09:09.499-07:00as a Christ-centered wife of an aspie man, i'v...as a Christ-centered wife of an aspie man, i've found that laughing also helps - hence my blog http://laughinghelps2.blogspot.com/ - thank you LORD for humor!laughing helpshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03419202929819268590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026421087737007766.post-33751593031588308402012-05-07T11:04:33.182-07:002012-05-07T11:04:33.182-07:00Asp Mom I was so delighted to see you back. I kno...Asp Mom I was so delighted to see you back. I know your blog was officially complete in many ways. I really enjoy your perspective and wisdom. Come back anytime you can! We love you! Aspielover4christ<br /><br />Ps. I have found lately that pressure and discomfort will never go away. We can only learn to manage it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026421087737007766.post-33688727593365497332012-05-04T20:58:42.340-07:002012-05-04T20:58:42.340-07:00okay just a thought from my experience being marri...okay just a thought from my experience being married 20 years to an "informally diagnosed" aspergers spouse. I think there are 2 basic problems with communication between spouses: one is describing and communication about what the communication means, the other is solving problems and connecting together-intimacy. So I have found it frustrating and targeting blame and shame if I focus too much on what "the communication means, or conveys to others or that nonverbal communication is 80% of all communication and try to convince my husband of his aspergers tendencies or that what he is doing is wrong"-I have found that our communication is better if I focus more on the concrete problems that the communication brings up-for me and for him but not letting aspergers be the fault of it all. Does that make sense?-yes aspergers is the problem so to speak but it also shouldn't define our relationship entirely...Easy-NO.....But it is good to put my <br />energy in the right directionAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com